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I guess as a seducer accustomed to look on the bright side of things. So when you're in Paris but you will not be able to leave the hotel room you think about what to do. Could make as prostitutes in the sixties, out into the hall and wait for someone to pass apeticible. While I can think of any better ideas get French TV and I see Neil Strauss on it. I do not like the TV but, after all, the rules are to jump, the corridor plan could be expected. It was a program where they interview several people at once looking to interact. Style was promoting his new book Rules of the Game, Spain Domina method in 30 days (in France 30 jours pour séduire / Confessions d'un virtuoso Dredge) and next to him was the French comedian Elie Semoun. In an interview when asked Semoun their views on the ideas of Style and replied to frame a sentence, said that women naturally distrustful of men and to seduce rather than directly to the big game must first win confidence. Neil Strauss was quite stiff entire program had no choice but to agree with him and wish that this guy did not write books of seduction because otherwise nobody would buy yours.

Semoun The phrase sums up an idea that is essential to understand everything to expressions of interest (which is often called SOIs or ADIs) but I prefer to call compliment.

The other day a reader (particularly Tuyyoya) I asked for help for their compliments one worked. I asked what name was a compliment work. And now I repeat the question to you what has to happen for a compliment work?

For me the answer is clear: a compliment works as long as possible to reduce the natural suspicion that women feel towards a man who intends to link with them.

Women want to be seduced, I have no doubt, but do not want to be deceived. And that fear of being misled them leads to distrust of men and fill obstacles in the path to seduction. The role of a compliment is to pave the way by removing obstacles such as showing men interested in it, men who see her as a woman special, different and better than the others.

And on that basis builds compliments thinking of only one idea: to convey to women the idea that you care about her because she is special, different and better than the others.

The reason that many men do not work is because authorities are more aware of what you why. Ie compliments release in order to obtain the validation of women and is becoming his lapdogs willing to applaud any plan or bullies in extolling his virtues while making it clear that they are better.

A compliment is something that will increase your sex appeal, no. A compliment is something that explains why you're there and why you want to go further. A compliment you say thinking about why (piropeo you because you're special) not on what (I piropeo to see that I am attractive). With praise is not you be the handsome but what she is.

position value.

That's a compliment to say that we must start from a position of value is false. Must start from a position of credibility. As I explained a compliment seeks to overcome the resistance of a woman passing on your belief that is special. If you do not sound credible only thing you get is making things worse.

I met a girl who told me that once was with a guy and the thing went really well. Then he began to recite poems extremely beautiful. She grabbed her purse and ran. What happened? Man that sounded less credible at all, barely knew the woman and get to recite love poems. It was clear that he had no interest in it than a hole to fill. From a position of value: the event went very well, the compliment was very good: poetry worthy of a professional (if in the XXI century professionals remain poetry) but I missed the genuineness and boy, that is key when it comes to compliments.

What makes more sense is the rule that women earn the compliment. Of course, interpreted in a different way to what is often seen on the forums.

are many who argue that should not compliment to a woman until you have received or IOIs IDIS (call them what you want). I think a fairly idiot. The one fact is complimenting it only when you see something in the woman susceptible to compliments. If a woman behaves like a real bitch you complimenting not lead to any positive results. But not because parts of a situation value but for lack of authenticity: how can a man minimally balanced feel genuine attraction to a woman who despises him.

is an idea that I discussed earlier, the only sign that he likes the woman that I have in mind is that it be disclosed as it is, investing in the conversation showing his personality and his way of being. Is that what I seek and value. That woman makes me Lips that touch your hair or dilate the pupils do not give particular importance. It's not just that they can be false signals (see I wrong signals "are easily seduced? ) is simply consistency: I have enough success with women to get excited by having a woman behind me instead I prefer to have some fun with a woman. Do not look for a fan, I seek a companion with whom to walk through life a few hours, days or perhaps years.

therefore is not piropee because I am in a situation of value, as the woman happens to have invested in the interaction I have seen in her details that flatter.

Start with a compliment.

Everything I have said ... Does that mean I can not open for a compliment? No, it means that if you say a compliment at minute 5, 10, 60 or 2880 (which is 2 days) have to be consistent with what has happened in those 5, 10, 60 or 2880 minutes. When

open with a compliment can not be consistent with what has happened because nothing has happened (yet) but you can be consistent with your way of being. It goes back to before: do not confuse what to why. This is not to start with a compliment for the girl to see you as someone attractive and you do not reject but to start with a compliment because you are a social person interested in knowing that woman on the ground that transmits the compliment. So you manage to overcome their natural distrust of strangers who come to pick her up. It is not about who thinks you're attractive but there is no reason to distrust you.

By opening with a compliment does not seek to generate attractive but be perceived as a sociable and interested in know the reason for expressing the compliment. This is demonstrated in the way they react to their response. Want to socialize and a refusal by the woman does not depressed but you start the game. This is where that phrase makes sense Perrion Zan behaving as if speaking Martian when a woman says no.

Consistency = proportionality.

One way, perhaps the best, to see when a compliment prevail against what is to analyze why they are proportionate to the time of interaction.

A compliment must be consistent to what just happened. This is to remove barriers and this is only achieved being proportional to what has happened, otherwise the woman suspect everything is a preconceived plan and artificial.

Schematically (and therefore a bit reductionist) a compliment by the time you can transmit these feelings:

1) You are special, I know. At first, you do not know. You sense that the girl is special in some trait Based yours. Intend to start a conversation with her.

2) You are special, I know you better. You've talked to her and your compliment reflects that between the two first connection. It is deep in a chat that show your personality.

3) You are special, I'm glad to be with you. And you know well and can appreciate his personality. It's about starting a relationship (which need not be long) to reach sexual level.

And finally, the big question, which compliments.

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This is what needs to be complimenting: what makes you special, what makes you different. Take that and say it's wonderful that exactly that is special.

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Annex.

Seduction of a person and have many common masses. One of them is trust, just as you can not expect a woman to sleep with you if you do not trust you can not expect to win an election if people do not trust you. This article by John Carlin on the problems of British Prime Minister think will be very useful to assess the importance of being oneself. (Note to quote Shakespeare. Spectacular)
The Tragedy of Brown
By the way John Carlin is the author of a magisterial book called The Human Factor how Mandela managed to reconcile a nation with something as inconsequential as a game Rugby. A book that not only make you better seductive but also better people, two things that, unfortunately, not always go together.

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Be yourself. The advice given almost every woman a man who asked for advice on how to flirt. What
behind this assertion. Is it true that a lie?

One of the greatest deceptions of the self-seduction community is that a woman will never tell you how to seduce her. That is a complete lie. The only women who manage to communicate a man is not how they want to be seduced are the femmes fatales, women who cause such confusion in their "victims" not even remotely know what to do to attract becoming a puppet in the hands of those terrible women . And you will agree with me that femmes fatales in this world there are few.

The reality is that a woman did tell you how you want to be seduced, the key is that you are smart enough for your information. Because one thing is certain: a woman is not going to say openly how to seduce her but will drop the tracks to see if you are smart enough to pick up the pieces and put together the puzzle.

On this basis it's worth wondering is advice that almost every woman gives us to be ourselves? Resounding answer: the best advice I can give in life, if you are able to decipher it.

The reason why many people are unable to decipher this advice is because they believe the woman is telling you what you would like to send him when in fact what he is saying he does not like what you do, and that you do not like is that men than themselves to pick her up, put another way: being deceived.

The key is not so much to be yourself but do not be what you are not. It's about being genuine. What the girl is saying is to seduce you can be anything provided you are genuine or, put another way, that being anything supposedly attractive if you are not genuine will never get to seduce her.

is why Juggler what I like so much, because instead of getting bored with tricks that (supposedly) someone attractive you become focused on teaching you to establish genuine connections with women. Remember this rule: whatever you do, if you do not seem genuine will not achieve anything. Then

Why I have no success with women? I am genuine, I behave as I am and I like a donut.

First, are you sure that you are always the same? You sure do not ever try to pretend to be another thing you are? Have you ever actually go through who are not? But let that pass because the background is not so important.

What is important is that people without success among women are people who are themselves but by default rather than conviction. Ie: they are what they are because they dare not be anything else, not because they have decided to be that way and are willing to go to in order to defend their choice.

If the first part of being oneself is act genuinely the second part is you act genuine conviction. You

gambling problem is not external, what you are, but inside game. With women or do not dare to be the one you want or do not dare to step forward and say I'm just not what I want but also I will be if you do not like.

Being yourself is more a matter of domestic than external game.

is essential to seduce faith in what you do but not in the sense you might think that the lifestyle you're wearing is attractive to women but in the sense that you live the life you want to live and work to achieve you've always wanted to be.

seduce a woman thing mentally very tough. Analyzed on a cold is to send a request to seduce a woman to sleep with her. She examines the application, we ask questions to see if they meet the required level, we even tested to see if it's true what they say or just talk. This produces a lot of wear because it is inevitable that you begin to come to mind questions about your appeal, you start to feel bad about yourself, to question you absolutely everything that you are in life.

To successfully seduce a key you have a deep and complete conviction that you are attractive. Only in this way you will be able to overcome the harshness that can be reached seduce a woman.

And this level of conviction only be achieved by being yourself.

Only if you choose to be the person who truly want to be, whether in life make the choices that you make not those which society, women or a book of seduction you impose. For all these impositions just falling like a house of cards have a woman as less than half a meter. It's like a home against a hurricane, if you have a good foundation will endure, if only on the surface will not stand and the first winds. Also have a conviction only get hurricane-proof if you have chosen a lifestyle, goals would not change for no one else.

Remember this is very important when you leave doubts, because doubt always will. Remember that you may what you are doing is not attractive, attractive understood that she likes, but this is not the issue, the question is whether you really free of all constraints do women really want it she questioned. If you want to get on with it, and if the girl does not like it well what can we do.

guess once you've heard the expression that the stronger frame is imposing. This phrase does not mean anything but if you can be convinced that what we do is right overcoming all obstacles and traps that appear without doubt make the other person to give reason.

To understand this concept was telling about the history of a chef. He talked about how at first his kitchen had few followers and problems spanning the restaurant. "Everyone told us we were guys with talent and if we were leaving so much innovation and sophistication would have the restaurant full every day. And if they did ever people said that he gave us the same success, which scorned the money. Not true, of course we care about success. It is a restaurant, without an audience does not hold. The point was that we did not care enough to give up the kitchen that excites us. We were doing what we wanted to do, we were happy to do so, while we had just enough to stay open another year what is the problem there? "

The man in question is called Ferran Adrià, today is the best chef in the world and get a table at his restaurant is more complicated than dinner with Obama in the White House.

discussed the history with a woman I would have to invent a rule that summarizes the philosophy of Adrià and tattooed all over the world to never forget it. A very attractive woman (and intelligent) I had heard the conversation with interest said that philosophy already exists, is called being yourself.

And they say that women do not tell you how to seduce them.