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Two classic questions: Should we throw a neg for all women? And what is the "vacuum" that the speaker Juggler?
these questions really hide a profound ignorance of why we adopted an aggressive strategy that a stranger to pretend to seduce.
This is not a test She & him
The negs are nothing but a manifestation of what I call "the evil intentions of the seductive" with which I mean all those cases in which we cease to be as seductive to play good cop bad cops adopting an aggressive strategy. The starting point for "bad milk seductive work is to know what are these techniques.
Many people think that a neg is a way to generate attraction, not being an outright false statement is not the best rating. I prefer to define the neg as a way to capture the attention of women. Strictly speaking the neg is not part of the game but something prior: a way to make women jump onto the field so you can start the game.
The bad milk is used to break what I call "the levee." Levee is the name given to the time of the royal receptions in which hundreds of guests pass by the kings hello. It is an act so routine that the kings act mechanically, so that unless you are very important, the king did not remember or what you asked or what you answered, it is most likely not remember you've been there.
The same is true with the beautiful women. They are so used to men wanting to flirt with them to act mechanically with the men who approach them. These women act reflexively without paying attention to who you are, so that half a second after you've stopped talking to them and you have forgotten. You will be just one of hundreds that have happened that night on the levee.
While women remain in this state of divinity will be impossible to seduce. Seduce a woman involves establishing a connection between the two based on your personality. If you want a genuine connection you have to motivate his interest in a quality that makes it unique. While serving as a diva can not do it because she is not behaving as it is, not his personality is showing you with what you have is totally impossible to find it attractive quality. So the bad milk should be used when women perceive that you are trying mechanically as a subject more, when it is running like a robot without specifying the interaction with you.
Juggler uses a metaphor great to talk about these situations. Says it's like when a poker game a player has not made the initial bet. Can you imagine starting the game without one of the players bet? Of course not, but do not get up and you stick a shot because that would mean the end of the game and you want to play. So leave aside the initial pleasantries and you get serious until the other (one in this case) decide to bet. Ten
this metaphor in mind when using the negs. Remember that your goal is that women decide to play not release the woman offended and leave. A neg is a gateway to the height of the knee with an attempt to interrupt the game but a reminder to women that is not investing in the interaction and it will not continue as it does not. I guess you will not have to explain that by investing in the interaction I do not mean that women begin to pay you drinks but the discontinuation of mechanical behavior and displayed as it is, you spend putting on the table his true personality.
The negs is the kind of "bad blood" best known, but it is not the only or even necessarily the most effective. A neg is to show disinterest more or less openly, but within the "bad blood" should also be something as simple as not showing interest without going to show disinterest. This is where what Juggler called Vacuum and vacuum means.
The Vacuum is designed for those times when a woman speaks to you but if limited to short sentences that say nothing about it. Consists of keeping quiet, with a serious attitude (no smiles) focused on what she says and hoping for something more. It's about creating an awkward silence that force them to talk more, be more accurate in their responses showing more of his personality in them.
Are these techniques are incompatible with direct? No. Play
direct means opening showing interest in women, means that you have perceived something in women that encourages you to know but nothing else. That does not mean you absolutely determined to maintain a relationship with her. The lame in a bookstore a book to read your back does not mean you're going to buy it or yes. Same here, is no inconsistency direct open and then display bad temper. Nobody better than an attractive woman knows to put something in the tester does not mean they're buying so you do not sell the story that'll seem incongruous.
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