Sunday, April 19, 2009

Where Do They Sell Geodes

Day game: why this guy talking to me?. Vacuum


Before awaited article on Push & Pull respond to a comment I made last time we talk about Game Day.

Fan Club for John Boy's Love of Lesbian.



I saw that when game day comes that you fear many women think who are flirting with her. Actually the problem is that women do not discover you are linking but the woman wondering why you're talking to her. A woman, a stranger approaching you in a nightclub is not going to miss but the day itself, albeit a gorgeous woman with whom everyone wants to flirt. It's so strange for you to link the day she therefore need to explain why you've gotten to talk to a stranger in broad daylight. If women do not feel uncomfortable by the mere fact that you speak, do not listen to your words because their brains only think of one thing: how to make you go away.

Part 1: open without her ask why you're there.

If women do not ask why you're talking to her is a great technique. This is a foolproof routine that destroy any chance that the woman questioned what are you doing there talking to her. This technique is explained.

may seem obvious, but I assure you it's no nonsense, if you want a woman to know why you're talking to her tell it, he explains in a clear, understandable and credible, why are you going to it.

You say do not do that around the world? the truth is that no, the vast majority of people are as yet open to something interesting original will be rejected to ensure not forget what's important to explain why you talk to her. Without this prerequisite no matter what you say, the girl is not going to listen. Example

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The other day I was on the bus listening Love of Lesbian (that's why I called them) and I saw beside me a girl reading a book by Haruki Murakami. How would you have started a conversation?

do you think an "apology, I will not interrupt your reading but I saw you reading a book by Haruki Murakami. I read a couple own and I'm fascinated but this in particular does not know is it good?"

smooth entry is: spend most of the time to explain why am I talking to her to say something concrete. If I had started with a "good book?" or "go for you too like Murakami" she would have looked with a face of who you are, why you talking about and where are the police when needed?

The key is to explain. If you're opening indirectly does not waste time searching for an opener that will present as a smart guy, interesting or funny. Worry instead that women understand the reason you start talking to her. By day you can tell anything to a woman if you start with a kind of preamble (this is the word used Juggler) explaining why 're there.

Part 2: to speak without her wonder why you go on.

Well suppose you have opened and everything has gone well, you've talked with her and it's time that the starter is running. What to do? There is something essential: to be able to continue the conversation without her wonder why this guy is talking to me?

Think, thou hast come asking for Murakami, shop shirts or the highest mountain in Italy (the volcano Etna), have talked about it and suddenly you start to talk about something else (for example: customs of the Hindus), she'll wonder why you talk with it. Thou hast come asking for Murakami but there is no reason to keep talking to her once exhausted the subject Murakami.

You must do something to justify you keep talking to her, something she completes the space of the phrase "you're talking about because ___"

And that something is to notice something spontaneously and show you more interested in it that original theme. Ideally, it is even in the middle of a sentence "Tokyo Blues (a book of Murakami) is one of my favorite books but After Dark (pause) Hey, I love your earrings, I'm looking around and for birthday "My sister bought them here?" Start a new

topic of conversation is used at first but as soon as you have to show interest in the girl, I do not mean sexual interest (aparentarías a little desperate, do not you?) but interest. Find something that justifies the girl you like and that's why you keep talking to her. But if you want this to work you must be very explicit to show interest. Do not expect her to realize or deduct it but say it clearly.

I do not so much a matter of talk but of emotions, it comes to showing his enthusiasm for some quality. Something like: "It is a pleasure to discuss literature with you. You can tell that you really like Murakami and you do not read just because it is fashion. I have the intuition that the book I'm reading you like, it's called ... "

Find this attachment point which distinguishes the interaction is not easy, not that it is available to a few but is not something that is learned overnight. Like so much the ability to be able to extract from the clothes, attitudes and words of women to discuss material requires exercised and developed. So work hard and give this aspect, alone but day and night.

is a skill you need to develop but not become obsessed with the subject. You have to be like a striker who wants the ball at his feet but not becomes obsessed with the ball and chases down the field but remains in place waiting for a teammate to pass it. Also you must not become obsessed with finding a point with which engage the conversation, relax and wait for the single will be displayed, because believe me, know how to wait is part of the game.

Wednesday, April 1, 2009

What Can Be Told From A Hemogram





Passion Pit, have not yet released its first LP and you are one of the groups in 2009 thanks to great songs and Sleepyhead.

The vacuum is one of the most popular techniques Wayne Elise "Juggler" and at the same time, one of the most unknown in the sense that many people know that the vacuum exists, but few know exactly what it is.

Vacuum (vacuum in English) is a technique of staying silent to create an uncomfortable silence that forces the girl to say something to fill the silence.

the vacuum really is the fear that men and women have to be rejected. Women have a script that guarantees them capture the attention of the man that interests them. The problem is rarely interested in a man hunt leave so simple. Arguably, the script confirms the attractiveness of women at the expense of the appeal of man who is reduced to a toad. And is that dating game is very similar to the swing in which two children are placed in separate ends of a rod so that when one rises the other falls. But despite that no woman will spontaneously leave the script because if you do feel insecure. A woman while remaining within the limits of the script knows that it can hunt man (another thing that I want) but outside of those boundaries is not so clear that it is sufficiently attractive. Consequently, if women want out of your routine will have to do something to break the schemes, is that why they used techniques such as vacuum, the negs or push and pull.

specifically with the idea you transmit vacuum women is that their weapons of seduction are insufficient to seduce so if you want something you will be left of tricks and show your personality. That is something that will never spontaneously because a woman can have great confidence in their physical, but when it comes to their personality all are unsafe.

The use of vacuum summarized in three sentences that seem very obvious but if you read you will see that few people follow them.

If you ask a question is because you are interested in answer

The vacuum is not so silent as to get serious. The thing is that when you talk to a woman you're in a sociable way, you're funny and kind. Then, in half a second, your face becomes serious, throw a direct question and you're left in silence waiting for the response.
vacuum
The key is that women feel challenged and therefore is or as some say it qualifies. The idea is that women feel tried and detail the reason for their choice is not limited to a yes or no but to explain. Remember that women naturally are not going to get out of your script, if you want me to have to give rise to it.

Example:

speak with a woman and you're so fun to be sociable, cheerful and attentive. If in that state say "so you're a journalist," she will reply "yes" and not feel you have to add nothing else, just the conversation not requiring more involvement on their part.

But saying that sentence you get serious and you stay in silence waiting for her response is not limited to state but add something more like "yes, since childhood I liked to write and I chose journalism because I thought that the best way of life writing. I was disappointed to discover that in the profession just write four but, well, he just taking pleasure in their job. "

see the difference, with something as simple as waiting get serious and she has contributed much more to the conversation. It is no longer mere spectator of your show but actually there is an interaction two bands with you.

If you ask a question is because you are interested in the subject

often you ask a question and get an answer, yes, but an incomplete response. In such cases cross-examination is better than keeping quiet so that she spontaneously say something else. Example:

- Have you ever been to Africa?
- Yes once went to the Red Sea
- And what, do you like? Too

so little interest or involvement in other words too many questions, things like a police interrogation.

- Have you ever been to Africa?
- Yes once went to the Red Sea [Silence Vacuum] I went with some college mates to dive and was one of the most beautiful experiences of my life.

Do you understand the difference? In what is now much easier to show interest.

a question If you stay to hear the answer

This transcends what is the vacuum, but comes to mind and it's very important. Many times we use time and time the woman says something that allows us to qualify it and when we find we enter a war to see who is cooler. Example:

- Last summer I was scuba diving in the Red Sea.
- As I was climbing the K 2 on the south side and the entire bibliography Dickens in the backpack.

The explanation is simple: with a fascinating personality women intimidate us and try to prove that we are at their height. This sent to hell under the award and kill any attraction she may have seen us. Instead let the girl developed the theme, shut up because now is the time to listen. Enter into a war of egos would be as stupid as the miner who after days of digging is the first nugget of gold and decides to leave the hole and start digging somewhere else.

Believe me there is much beauty to think that the Flintstones are based on real events so when you give to an interesting woman instead of feeling intimidated feel lucky.

- Last summer I was scuba diving in the Red Sea.
- Really? I've been told is the best place for diving. I have really wanted to try it.
- Well, do not be missed. I do diving since childhood and have never seen anything that even comes close.

Indeed, after the vacuum, when the woman has made the effort to reward you reveal your personality. If you are one who prefer skin tear you to shreds before they show interest will be better to forget this article.