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this assumption: you have just been talking to a woman and you have not kissed. What was wrong? There are two hypotheses: a) you have not dared to kiss her, b) you dared to kiss her but she rejected you because you do not like you. Well, to avoid again you spend the first hypothesis is in charge of the clearance, they do not ever stumble on the second option deals with the outside game. So far okay? Well, today I intend to speak of a third option that you may not have kissed the girl, you're daring, that she likes you but he is afraid to kiss you.

Afraid to kiss me?

Exactly. We often talked of fears of a man over the seduction but never (or at least very rarely) it's fears. So much so that many men are unaware that a woman might feel frightened at the thought of sleeping with a man. Simplistically say that if a woman does not ride it a man is not willing. And sometimes but not always so. It's like a man in a nightclub, if he starts talking with a woman can be either because they feel attracted by it or by the opposite case: the girl likes them, he intimidated to the point where they dared to speak with it. Well

happens as women, they too are afraid of rejection. It's a different fear but fear the end. Arguably, both are afraid to give us the bedroom door in his face, the difference is that men have to beat us to the outside and women inside. A scare us who do not want to sleep with us, that we let into the bedroom. To them that after sex, we get up and go away, it appears that everything was a set up to sleep with her.

Women think so much before bed with a man. Typically many gurus here will unleash a lengthy tirade about important developments and implications for a woman to become pregnant and the risks taken to bed with you. It is true that. But in my opinion, outweigh the concerns of the century, ie all the bad experiences that women have suffered because of a man he came to a sexual level. For a woman it is very hard to be abandoned by a man lie with a man for a woman means today not so much the risk of pregnancy but the risk of being rejected. For a woman to be rejected by a man I have slept very hard, it feels like a disposable object. Think for a moment how you treat things disposable and the concept you have of them, can not be lower. Women love to feel sexy, well, rather, need to be known attractive. But rarely feel this way, always have doubts. If Gisele Bundchen is convinced that thousands of women are more beautiful than she and Megan Fox can not be seen on the screen because it looks ugly, imagine what it must pass through the minds of other women. Women are constantly questioning their beauty, suffer much from it and feel just objects throwaway is the last thing I want to feel.

For all this I think so much before sex. In some ways follow the doctrine of the Pope, the same way that the Vatican says the best way to avoid sexually transmitted diseases is sexual abstinence women conclude that the best way not to be rejected is sexual abstinence. A lack of emotional condoms the only way for a night of passion ends in a dawn of pain is abstinence (or reverse what do you now understand better why some women do not just tell you the moment you you're removing your pants?)

The motivation that leads to women not to sleep with a man who likes very similar to the reason that a man dare not enter a woman who attracts him. Just as you try to sleep with a woman means taking a risk that she may reject you for a woman to sleep with a man means running the risk of getting rejected. Add to that now that women are emotional creatures, and therefore their emotions are more intense than ours and have a very close approximation to what happens when a woman feels rejected.

Being as something quite obvious that women also suffer the evil of bullying in the seduction is surprising how little (or no) time on this issue. It is true that we speak of Rapport, connection, comfort, etc. but never assumes that seduction involves many risks for the woman (and I mean no pregnancy), and that this gives him great fear. In fact this article does not pretend to invent anything new because there are many ways to create a connection I just want to stress that the reason why the Report is so important is because you need to find a solution to fears of a woman.

The moral of this article is that when you forward with a woman not only worry about presenting yourself as an attractive man but also as a man attracted. Is a phrase from Wayne Elise "Juggler" I love: charm lies in being interesting and interested. It is simply having note that the woman may feel fear during the seduction, to remind themselves and seek remedies before it is too late. Obviously

put this in operation is difficult. Perhaps the most difficult of seduction because it is something that no magic words, you always have to improvise. To generate interest routines you can find some universal validity but to show your interest, there's little room for memoriones. Simply open a forum of seduction and compare the material offered to generate interest with which it seeks to show interest.

no magic phrases but there are parameters to eliminate these fears.

And the base is credibility. To show interest does not hurt the ability of a Neruda but neither need it, just a compliment when you say she feels that is truthful.

And the best way to be authentic is to be honest but I suspect that if you're reading these lines is because they need some more help to know your interest so espondré a basic outline of how to show interest. With this scheme does not intend to create a strategy guide you closed it so that when a woman in front of you recognize when you are and have the security to continue. It's no treasure map but a simple guide to avoid roads that you have to take a thousand rounds and stand at every gas station to ask how to get to your destination.

The natural history of interest passes through three stages that summarize with the phrase: I'm interested, I like, and appeals to me.

I'm interested in is as simple as listening to a woman. Many men when a woman does or says something interesting to interrupt them something interesting, or at least supposedly interesting. Do not, is not the time to be interesting but to be interested. Instead listen, let it develop the theme, makes it clear that you're enjoying what you say.

From here we immediately like it. If a woman want to go to develop a topic you have to make clear that interests you and you also like (the subject and by extension her, but for now the story) to humans in general and women in particular find it hard to talk about their things, their lives, how they are and what they do. So if you want a woman to feel comfortable talking about it not just have to let it clear that you care but also that it's okay, that their values \u200b\u200band principles have approved. Small things like really?, How interesting, I'd have been there or have always wanted to do that helps a lot because they make women feel good about yourself.

And lastly appeals to me. It's time to personalize the story was interesting and positive Now is the time to individualize. Highlight the values \u200b\u200bthat had the history, values \u200b\u200bthat you liked and made it concrete form. We must make the leap: the story is not what you like, now is it.

This whole story of overcoming the fears of women, to be interesting and interested and to be credible I called the keel for one simple reason. The keel is a triangular piece that goes in the bottom of the sail boats, keel, and plays an essential purpose: to navigate against the wind. A sailing boat with no keel could not sail with the wind in my face, the sailors would have to like centuries ago: get out the oars and rowing. The daggerboard is responsible for shipping sailing is possible, that man can sail whenever you want and whenever you decide no wind. Learn

showing interest is the keel of seduction, allowing you to overcome those headwinds are fears of a woman. Remember, the essence of seduction is not she cute but you see she looks pretty in the reflection of your eyes.

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What is the formula for success with women?

for me is 15% theory, 35% to 50% instinct and courage.

theory.

The problem is that many methods for the lack of initiative and value information. Exhaustingly regulate everything that can happen before a woman and say you have all the answers here, you have nothing to fear and nothing to improvise. As

idea is not bad, the penalty is not broken.

The Greek philosopher Heraclitus said that no one can step twice into the same river because although it is the same river waters now are different from yesterday and different from tomorrow, just as you You're still the same but are different from you were and you'll be different.

The reality is constantly changing, and not all women are equal and not all women are always the same, its character varies from person to person, time and place. Too many changes to make fixed rules. Being so it is impossible to formulate rules governing the seduction of a full and then claim to have universal validity.

A catalog that intends to make a phrase or particular technique to solve any obstacles that may appear on the seduction only be useful for those who wrote the catalog, before the woman who put him in that trouble and in that moment and place. The efficacy of these magic phrases that will decline as you change items to the equation.

Instead I am in favor of general criteria have the advantage of being universal, but the disadvantage that they are abstract. Valid for all men and women, but require payment of the toll of having to adapt to every woman and context. I said before that the theory is only 15% of the formula for success, 85% is able to adapt the abstract principle to that particular woman and in that moment ..

not seek to learn techniques or phrases, find out the attitudes of success, why at that point, the person and address that woman worked that phrase. As the Chinese proverb: it is not give you fish, but to learn to fish.

Instinct.

animals hunt by instinct. Wolf Mom and Dad do not bring their cubs to a school to learn to hunt but it is something they learn by themselves by watching their parents.

But the rules change with the animals born in captivity do not know how to hunt for themselves (they never have and have never seen their parents hunt for food is something they literally fell from heaven). That means that an animal born in captivity die if released from starvation by not having the foggiest idea how to hunt. Biologists know today, before releasing an animal subjected to hunting and survival courses. These courses are not theoretical style that is a sheep, eat and this stone, do not eat "but rather to awaken the animal your hunting instinct by losing the fear of creatures that would be potential victims, that gradually become more familiar with the dynamics of the game up to become a predator.

happens to you something. You should have learned to link yourself but it did not and why it does not matter now, what matters is that you learn to seduce. Ysi want to learn how to seduce you'll have to learn to let your sense of smell, intuition, pragmatism, and so on. and guide seduction. In short: you awaken your instinct is seductive, but instinct that you are sleepy. Just as an animal born in captivity are not taught to hunt, but it releases its hunting instinct you can not teach you to seduce but you can release your seductive flair.

The instinct is usually associated with a kind of sixth sense that alerts you to the presence or absence of hazards by nuances that are beyond the conscious mind. It is a kind of intellectual smell. The problem comes when the methods of seduction this smell replaced by a sort of artificial respiration in the form of filters, structures, studies, analysis, dynamics, etc. The made for the instinct is the kingdom of the doubt. The instinct is always doubtful, if we see something clearly then it is instinct. Instinct is a suspicion, a feeling that the thing seems to be going well or going wrong, you're not entirely sure but you sense that things are well. The wicked seduction methods which offer you to replace this uncertainty about the safety of an enclosed structure. Again the same: the idea is not bad, the penalty is not broken.

Instinct is not clear because it relies on little nuances that by its very nature is not clearly perceived hue. Cancel this uncertainty is only possible by attacking the root of the doubt: the nuances. All these methods override the uncertainty closed ignoring the nuances, so many people applying these ideas so ridiculous acts of insulting to women when it comes to extol or exalt something when you have to reproach.

theory with their structures are very well to awaken your instinct to pay attention to nuances that once ignored or even know existed but it can not replace your instinct information. You have to assume that at least 35% of the seduction is instinctively able to see the nuances of each person and adapt to them. Therefore it is very important to practice because your gut will not wake up with theory but practice. Close your books open women.

Courage.

If not for the referee Hurricane would be the champion of Argentine Clausura (in case I is reading a fan of Velez say that that is what the chronicles published in Spain, I have not seen the match so if you you liked my comment I invite you to give me his version of events before entering disqualifications). The Argentines will know better than me but the Hurricane is fighting to win a title is something seldom seen in its 100 years of history (specifically 100 years and a couple of months) so it is worth paying attention to the philosophy that has led him to be moral champion Argentina (Velez fans are going to end up killing me, and some of San Lorenzo may also). In this interview

Angel Cappa, current coach of Hurricane and an old English football reels off his philosophy. Article highlight this phrase to be fully applicable to the seduction and why I like so little certain methods of seduction.

"First, in the modern game, and also in Argentina, the first thing the player is robbed of the pleasure of playing. They take courage. So do not play. It plays a role that ends up being painful for try to win points. The player tries to make sure. And soccer entails a risk. You have to train to run that risk and take the risk of playing. The first thing that I used as policy is to encourage play. You have to enjoy the game, that allows the player to pay more. "Angel Cappa

The truth is that the phrase is quite clear and does not need much explanation.

The great truth of many methods of seduction is to eliminate the courage, which is an advantage because we know how much it can cost a woman to stop, but with the courage to take the fun. No doubt when these methods effective (although some should not work because if the author would not change method one book to another is not it?) but it's so boring you have to be very desperate to follow them.

I propose that instead of looking for structures and dynamics that override the courage to get used to danger, to leave to see the risk as your enemy but as the possibility of doing what you do, and fun way above. Courage is the main element of seduction, look no annulled. As Pep Guardiola says "The risk is not risky." What should scare you is precisely not to be afraid.

guess some will say that these structured methods are more boring but much more effective. I disagree. When Valdano and trained to Real Madrid Cappa opted for the method "in doubt courage" and called for an offensive style and the team 100% not only won the league, got goals in Europe but also mythical broke the mark of minutes without conceding a goal. Mark 14 years later still not overcome.

the end if you have fun, if you enjoy what you do and fight for your dreams are good. You do not need any structure, you just 15% of theory, 35% and 50% instinct of courage.