This post is a compilation of some of the answers I gave in previous post comments. I do it so they can read those not used to seeing the comments and, above all, because there were so many comments that it was getting uncomfortable to handle.
For everything else I take my retirement. This is not a new post but just a rehash.
I chose the post not so much interesting question, but by the correctness of the answer, if someone does not see your question will not be offended, it's nothing personal.
The questions are altered but the answers are almost the same, only I have removed references to specific individuals and in some case, I gathered several responses.
The risk is not risky.
The phrase "how risky is to risk" means there adopt risky strategies, not strategies have to be dispensed. So Guardiola, who is the author of the phrase not I play with three forwards, not eight. Beware the shade.
Why try if only a few will make it to be seductive?
There are two kinds of men who, when they discover that few will succeed decide to put the maximum effort for them one of the few who succeed and those who give up because they are not worth trying anything that is not 100% guaranteed. Is individual choice, I have very clear what is mine and you?
How do you know what to do in each situation?, Why you've already lived? or why have a very solid inside game and every situation you do not be reactive?
is a mixture of both. Experience (ie learning from my many failures) and inner game to keep calm in each case and make the decision that you consider most appropriate.
Since then it has not been reached with 600-page book filled with special solutions for specific cases but general principles and courage to apply to every case. How
impose your part to these beautiful women do not, incredibly beautiful, used to being surrounded by men who always get their way.
In such cases it is not done but NOT to do.
Standing in front of a very attractive woman makes us think we have to do something to be perceived as attractive. That "something" can be a demonstration of courage that impresses or a sign that we are not impressed by their tactics, which basically consists of mixed signals and flirting insane.
In both cases it is a bad strategy. What you have to do is control your emotions, not let it affect you their tricks and continue business as usual. This kind of women can only leave believed to act as one when they realize that you are immune to his tricks. Ie that you wear or wagging his tail when the girl ignores you when you ignore or bark.
So instead of looking how to cancel your ego seeks how to build a genuine connection with her.
must be proactive and escape of his tricks: show only when she has shown interest in your personality and your interest is genuine. Escape of false signals. Post
interest on the subject:
http://mariodidomenico.blogspot.com/2008/07/como-seducir-una-mujer-extremadamente.html
http://mariodidomenico.blogspot.com/2009/06/ play-without-the-balon.html
http://mariodidomenico.blogspot.com/2008/11/seales-equivocadas-i-eres-fcil-de.html
handsome man ... Is it always bad in bed?
a phrase by Carrie-Sex and the City, in Spain Sex and the City, which reads "Men Who are good looking too good in bed Are Never Because They Never Had to be" can be translated as "the very handsome men are never good in bed because they have no need of it. "
The moral of the story is that men are not attractive, or at least not feel as such, at the time of sex are very much concerned that women are aware that they have few points in its favor and who can not afford more failures. It is as if to say: I can be a failure in many respects, but I'm in bed most.
contrast handsome man is more focused on enjoying it and, of course, it makes you resent the pleasure of women.
my view is more a matter of narcissism that beauty. Obvious that an attractive man is more prone to narcissism that a really ugly but not generalize: not all handsome are jerks.
laziness also has a role in this story.
My experience is that if I'm motivated are good, much better than average. But I will not lie, there are times when no curro me a lot because the girl does not thrill me much. I am not of those who do harm to women who do not like but I am afraid I am of those that does always provides a good evening of sex. It's like a football team already has won everything, difficult to find motivation for certain games.
Ya, and the beautiful women "are also always bad in bed?
It is true that women in bed rarely take the initiative. Not just in sex but in general all that relates to relationships between men and women, they always take a passive role. This is accentuated in women attractive because they carry from 14 years to receive attention from men without doing anything. The key is to reassure the woman that you will not think badly of it if you decide to take some initiative. Many women have fear of appearing too expert in bed apparently not whores.
The value of the theory.
In discussing the value of theory is a question that we must never forget: the so-called seduction community is really a business, a business that sells theory and, like any other business, try to sell you more than you need.
So yes, the theory is important but do not need much theory as you sell.
seduction theory gives a minimum which allows you to do the ridiculous with a woman and not be immediately deleted, or get into a dead-zone just friends. On that basis it will be with the women learn to seduce.
to be seductive is not reached thousands attending conferences for 13 hours by many beautiful women who carry these events. In seminars like these you learn the minimum for a woman will speak to you and then when you're in front of a woman learn everything you need to know about women. Not that women are the best teachers of seduction, is that they are the only ones who can teach you something. All these articles, books and seminars are only a prologue.
The theory has a lot of placebo effect. In football coaches know that the younger players need to talk tactics much longer than the veterans. It's not just a matter of a veteran player already knows the answers but he knows that such talk is not going to help much on the pitch where you will come to improvise and take risks. The young player not yet accustomed to such improvisation and believes that if the parties risk a lot is because he does something wrong. The talk is only for the novice player will not come down, exit the game and start making mistakes after mistakes.
architecture ensures that the building will not fall, is the starting point. But then you have to add something more, something that does not appear in the books of architecture for building is a work of art like the Sagrada Familia and not a nondescript apartment building as the front of your house.
Theory can stop you from being a Noob, but not make you a seducer. (Or, in terms Sex Code, the theory will cease to be a frusco but will not make you an adventure)
seductive
When you arrive at connecting with women, risking, failing, triumphing, fucking and being rejected. Are women no hormones instructors who will teach you the way to level seductive.
I leave this sentence of Charles Boyer-film critic for El Pais. When asked what is the best quote from a movie to win a girl? replied: "May she never know she came from a movie, it sounds natural and original. Anyway, what do you oil if it is to seduce a woman with a sentence of another."
That's it. You have to be natural and original. And if you have to link the phrase to go to another ... you have oil. Zan Video
Perrion.
is not a complete translation but a summary of the video.
Women have been my mentors, who taught me everything I know.
It's something that neither I nor any natural born but learned at any given time. They learned by practice, by trying and being rejected.
Certainly there are men who have something that no other women to get but that something is not your looks, money or power. What women find very attractive is the way that some men move through life, their attitude towards life.
Many men think to do something to conquer a woman to enter space. On the contrary there are men who act naturally to her, from the comfort (the video does not develop this idea)
stereotypes.
Stereotypes are very popular but I just do not convince me. Often isolated from one case to generalize to understand in cases like him ... but not equal.
The stereotypes are well-to guide, to discover new possibilities, alternatives and strategies. But you have to be taken with caution. Are standardized solutions, that is, made on the basis of common features that maximize return for ignoring the small differences, small differences can be decisive towards the outcome. A second will appear soon? Ask a corridor 100 meters if a second is a long time.
The appearance of a woman can tell a lot about how to deal with seduction but you have to be flexible enough to adapt to the real woman before you. Stereotypes are useful if you are able to rectify in motion, because one thing that I have clear: if you're wrong to stereotype and not put things right in time you are finished. Any recommendations
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