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Be yourself. The advice given almost every woman a man who asked for advice on how to flirt. What
behind this assertion. Is it true that a lie?

One of the greatest deceptions of the self-seduction community is that a woman will never tell you how to seduce her. That is a complete lie. The only women who manage to communicate a man is not how they want to be seduced are the femmes fatales, women who cause such confusion in their "victims" not even remotely know what to do to attract becoming a puppet in the hands of those terrible women . And you will agree with me that femmes fatales in this world there are few.

The reality is that a woman did tell you how you want to be seduced, the key is that you are smart enough for your information. Because one thing is certain: a woman is not going to say openly how to seduce her but will drop the tracks to see if you are smart enough to pick up the pieces and put together the puzzle.

On this basis it's worth wondering is advice that almost every woman gives us to be ourselves? Resounding answer: the best advice I can give in life, if you are able to decipher it.

The reason why many people are unable to decipher this advice is because they believe the woman is telling you what you would like to send him when in fact what he is saying he does not like what you do, and that you do not like is that men than themselves to pick her up, put another way: being deceived.

The key is not so much to be yourself but do not be what you are not. It's about being genuine. What the girl is saying is to seduce you can be anything provided you are genuine or, put another way, that being anything supposedly attractive if you are not genuine will never get to seduce her.

is why Juggler what I like so much, because instead of getting bored with tricks that (supposedly) someone attractive you become focused on teaching you to establish genuine connections with women. Remember this rule: whatever you do, if you do not seem genuine will not achieve anything. Then

Why I have no success with women? I am genuine, I behave as I am and I like a donut.

First, are you sure that you are always the same? You sure do not ever try to pretend to be another thing you are? Have you ever actually go through who are not? But let that pass because the background is not so important.

What is important is that people without success among women are people who are themselves but by default rather than conviction. Ie: they are what they are because they dare not be anything else, not because they have decided to be that way and are willing to go to in order to defend their choice.

If the first part of being oneself is act genuinely the second part is you act genuine conviction. You

gambling problem is not external, what you are, but inside game. With women or do not dare to be the one you want or do not dare to step forward and say I'm just not what I want but also I will be if you do not like.

Being yourself is more a matter of domestic than external game.

is essential to seduce faith in what you do but not in the sense you might think that the lifestyle you're wearing is attractive to women but in the sense that you live the life you want to live and work to achieve you've always wanted to be.

seduce a woman thing mentally very tough. Analyzed on a cold is to send a request to seduce a woman to sleep with her. She examines the application, we ask questions to see if they meet the required level, we even tested to see if it's true what they say or just talk. This produces a lot of wear because it is inevitable that you begin to come to mind questions about your appeal, you start to feel bad about yourself, to question you absolutely everything that you are in life.

To successfully seduce a key you have a deep and complete conviction that you are attractive. Only in this way you will be able to overcome the harshness that can be reached seduce a woman.

And this level of conviction only be achieved by being yourself.

Only if you choose to be the person who truly want to be, whether in life make the choices that you make not those which society, women or a book of seduction you impose. For all these impositions just falling like a house of cards have a woman as less than half a meter. It's like a home against a hurricane, if you have a good foundation will endure, if only on the surface will not stand and the first winds. Also have a conviction only get hurricane-proof if you have chosen a lifestyle, goals would not change for no one else.

Remember this is very important when you leave doubts, because doubt always will. Remember that you may what you are doing is not attractive, attractive understood that she likes, but this is not the issue, the question is whether you really free of all constraints do women really want it she questioned. If you want to get on with it, and if the girl does not like it well what can we do.

guess once you've heard the expression that the stronger frame is imposing. This phrase does not mean anything but if you can be convinced that what we do is right overcoming all obstacles and traps that appear without doubt make the other person to give reason.

To understand this concept was telling about the history of a chef. He talked about how at first his kitchen had few followers and problems spanning the restaurant. "Everyone told us we were guys with talent and if we were leaving so much innovation and sophistication would have the restaurant full every day. And if they did ever people said that he gave us the same success, which scorned the money. Not true, of course we care about success. It is a restaurant, without an audience does not hold. The point was that we did not care enough to give up the kitchen that excites us. We were doing what we wanted to do, we were happy to do so, while we had just enough to stay open another year what is the problem there? "

The man in question is called Ferran Adrià, today is the best chef in the world and get a table at his restaurant is more complicated than dinner with Obama in the White House.

discussed the history with a woman I would have to invent a rule that summarizes the philosophy of Adrià and tattooed all over the world to never forget it. A very attractive woman (and intelligent) I had heard the conversation with interest said that philosophy already exists, is called being yourself.

And they say that women do not tell you how to seduce them.

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One of the key concepts of Zan Perrion, perhaps the most important of his model of seduction, is the rule of indifference to the result, a principle that defines itself Perrion Zan and be open to all possibilities but linked to no avail.

This happens as a rule most of the ideas of Canadian (U.S. for some not very handy with geography), it is not something that can be understood in the first but requires some experience. To help you capture this brilliant idea that I think I developed the idea of \u200b\u200bseduction in small sips, not so brilliant I'm afraid. Imagine the typical

wine aficionado who drinks slowly savoring each sip. Compare now with someone who is drunk all the glass in one gulp. What would you say is the difference between the two?

He who drinks in one gulp acts moved to obtain a result (get drunk, win a bet, bankrupt, etc.) so that if you drink just before achieving their goal will be disappointed. Throw in that as he knows it as the bottle go down and see that it is difficult to achieve its objective will be getting more nervous. For

against drinking slowly is to give equal what is in the bottle, if you love wine want to never ends. What defines your position is that the evident desire of good wine never ends does not prevent savor and enjoy every sip. For him the important thing is to enjoy wine, and knows this is something that can be achieved with a simple glass of wine.

Now I want you to apply the model of short sipping with charm. This does not mean

slowly seduce but to be able to enjoy every moment of seduction no matter what comes next, even when nothing comes later, when it passes the stage where you are.

indifference to the outcome is not the same as you win or lose but what you may have lost not stop you from enjoying what you have accomplished, however little it is. When a wine lover you offer a drink to taste your wine will not stop to wonder then if you are going to offer more, if you will be able to stay with the bottle or you can buy one himself. Delivered with passion enjoy the moment, to savor the wine and then, then there will be time to think what to do.

With seduction have to do the same. No matter how ridiculous that is the step you learn to savor whatever that you can then move more or you're going to have to make do with what you've done.

few weeks ago, a woman approached me and I rejected the first minute. When I returned with my friends one of them told me is that you have not you noticed that there was nothing to do "and I said" of course I've noticed, but the temptation was too great to ignore. " I had perceived from the context and how to act that this woman did not want link but because this woman decided to approach encouraged me and wanted me to test. It is somewhat difficult to explain, one might say that just do not know how good (or bad) which is a group until you see it live with women you never know how wonderful they are (or not) until you try to seduce them. Happened to me I would not mind being rejected if that was the price to pay to meet this woman. Be rejected as I was a bit, what really mattered to me was to find that woman. Had reached a state where being rejected not prevented me from enjoying what he had done. But if you did not do anything if you rejected the minute! Of course I did something, something very difficult to make and very satisfying: act according to my ideals, not to let fear of failure and coerce me make me deviate from the path I want to go. Do you think enough? Being true to oneself is the most pleasurable thing in life.

All stages of seduction have their value, something I enjoy very much before reaching the sexual level. Open is the satisfaction of following your ideals, to discuss why it is better to be there with her even if only in a corner talking with a glass face looking dumb ass to go-go, knowing his personality because it is fabulous find out what is different and fascinating people, and so with all that seduction is not sex.

is learn to forget to continuously ask what next? but surrender to the moment, to savor what you've accomplished. Working in this way is to act like a man who loves women as another great concept says Zan Perrion women love men who love women.

The other day following the wedding of a friend asked how it feels to assume that what remains of life are not going to be with another woman (in principle, of course). Then I asked the same question to me, and their faces were expected to marry said he did not think ever. What I said, and I feel really, is that particular problem would not limit my sexual life to one woman, what really añoraría is to stand in front of a stranger and IRLA know little by little, to discover its beauty step enjoying every moment of seduction. Giving up being drunk will not be hard to give up taste a good wine, that I will miss forever.

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Push and Pull.


Push and Pull, push and pull. Who said that pulling and pushing could not increase the attraction?

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Swinggcat is not an author who enjoys great prestige among the natural seducers. For he says his method is too enconsertado and is artificial. These criticisms have a lot to some but, unlike many other writers of the early days of the so-called seduction community, you may relax their techniques and if you know how to adapt to the natural style Swinggcat can be of immense utility.

This article follows this concept: I do not just explain what the Push and Pull but also spoke of how focused I use this technique. I suppose one should be I would have preferred more adhered to the original but I hope you understand that that would have been betraying the way I see the allure.

What? The Push and Pull
is combined in the same sentence approval and rejection.
I propose to explain this example. Imagine teacher calls you to say I've suspended the subject but because it is a tight thriller offers you a little test for that, if approved, you avoid having the exam in September. The push and pull is the same: a reversible suspended and not definitive.

This is the essence of push and pull: compliance, the ability to reverse the situation. The push and pull it away because the girl is also suspended but closer because you leave the door open to approve. Examples

Swinggcat itself (to read the original press here )
1) "You look very nice ... but when frowns look 20 years older ... botox dear."
2) - "You have a beautiful smile. You should smile more. When you smile you look happy and cheerful rather than as serious and pervasive"
- Do I look serious and pervasive?
- repeating: "You have a beautiful smile. You should smile more"
3) "You have a nice body. It looks like a statue. But when you cross your arms look like a woman, overweight and a bad case of scoliosis. "

How?
The how is 90% of push and pull, the examples above are garbage with bad intonation and phrases much bestial work well said. The tone is appropriate to forward a fun, slightly mocking but not to the bad feeling. It tries to convey the idea of \u200b\u200b"I see you like to go hard, they care because I like fooling around" is something that comes with practice and what little can be said.

More interesting is another issue on how it is to leave open a way out. The push and pull breaks the script of a woman. Attractive women are not used to being questioned. That makes them stay puzzled and puzzling over what you wanted to say. Therefore you can not expect her to take the lead in the conversation but you have to assume that burden. It is a very common problem: you steal the ball instead and then not know what to do with feet.

The push and pull is to wipe the slate clean, or the new account you make your turn, do not stay out of the game more and not expect her to start a conversation.

When? Simplifying
we can say that you can watch a woman as an equal, from bottom to top and top to bottom. If you look at peer to peer use push and pull on it will produce the famous phrase "why is behaving so strangely, it is ruining everything." Bottom-up work, but complexes with both the woman who had wondering what to do with a woman. Only when you forward a woman who looks you up and down is when the push and pull is useful.

Speaking of push and pull of which is always used with very attractive women, men accustomed to constantly want to flirt with them and, therefore, assume that you also want to link with them. Now, if something is learned from direct is that a woman thinks that you want to score with it is not in itself a bad thing. Actually the problem is not that women assume that you want to score with her but to think A) you want to flirt and B) you do not give the level to warrant interest. That is the real problem and the starting point for using the push and pull, that women assume that no measure up to ligártela. If no negative presumption that you should not use the push and pull.

Where?
Using push and pull and, in general, techniques involving disqualify a woman, is much less fun than a beginner usually thought. These techniques are used in extreme conditions, compared to women of very high value (physical and psychological) that require you best. Interactions are very complicated because you have before us a very difficult woman to seduce you and you tend to be under pressure: a woman of about 10 front sight can be very intimidating.

In a way, it playing a final. Do not play it if you get angry and feel a great joy to beat it but as long as you pass play bad in the sense that you have to be very concentrated, the opposite will not let you deploy your game to flow, is pressure, etc.

The key to know what interactions using the push and pull is to be very clear that you do not choose to use it, simply do not have to. The push and pull interaction is used in very demanding on a woman in front of you so used to want to seduce. Actually you do not choose to use it, simply do not have any choice so that the interaction can proceed. What is more, if you could choose not to do so in the sense that everyone prefers an easy match and undemanding that one worked and suffered.

Just do not get you down, much as these interactions will suffer much worse do not reach them. It's not just in the joy of winning a final, is also that no matter how hard you can become an end it will always be hard not to come.

Who? Normally
articles on techniques involving the disqualification of a woman are preceded by a warning ethics not to use this material in bad faith, seeking to exploit the insecurities of a woman to manipulate. I guess you are good guys and they will not need to repeat this speech. Another

warning is not always done: be careful to not use them to your detriment. These techniques are like a gun, the danger is not just that you wear a shooting spree but you hit a shot in the foot.
The push and pull and generally any other technique that is based on disqualifying women is a reaction to the tests that we women do but not how to overcome these tests but a refusal to be examined by them. Not having a role with the survey responses is to break the test in the face of the teacher. It is essential that we not forget this nuance: it is not that the woman will not approve it comes to examine you.

Consequently, the push and pull parts of an opinion negative women but not looking to transform it into a positive but simply for women to leave an opinion. With the Push and Pull do not pretend to be perceived as an attractive man, but destroy a situation that is impossible bind. While she thinks that you are not attractive no human form of flirting. With the push and pull provoke an embarrassment for women from which you can start another seduction.

Why?
The secret that explains how the Push and Pull Swinggcat explains with this example: a glass of water tastes much better after a long walk. The problem is that many men make women travel the long road and then not offered a glass of water. Ie: the push and pull is useless if you give your approval to the woman when it wins.

As we have seen the Push and Pull a woman does not see you as attractive, but also let you see as non-attractive putting you in a no man's land, an intermediate space in which you as the case may look like an idiot or a weird dude. Something must be done to move to the level of attractiveness.

The Push and Pull is a disqualification that women seek to neutralize, not because you look like attractive humans but simply because we liked. Swinggcat explained with a phrase that says Lindsey Lohan in a movie (what can I do, it will be good seductive but amateur the cinema does not seem good) "that a person will fall ill does not mean do not look for approval." Something happens, he likes particularly well but will seek your approval. On the other hand if you've done well the Push and Pull've left the door open to get it. Learn
give approval is essential to complete the Push and Pull.

I like to choose a quality of a woman who him individually and show interest in basing it on that occasion. So far nothing new, something different is also explicit change in my opinion. "Wow I had misjudged. I thought you were pretty typical and stupid girl who believes that Pica stone are based on facts real, but I realize that you are a very interesting woman with whom I'm having fun. Tell me something about yourself what is the story of your life? "Thus culminates
push and pull, giving women the water that has worked and how well you will know.