Everything With You, by The Pains of Being Pure at Heart. Super shot amazing video 8 film, music, as always at L'Atelier, unbeatable. long time ago I said that with women you have to behave as if the deal was closed when it is not, and as if I were not when it is. Since then I have spoken many times of the former, indifference to the outcome, but not the second. Today I will focus on the latter but if someone just discovered this blog will make a brief summary of the first.
As if the deal was done.
means that when the deal is done you treat women as if you had very confident with them, making jokes that only you with your closest friends and throwing compliments as if you were dating. Acting without fear of rejection means acting as though there was no possibility of rejection. Can you imagine that one ceases to be your friend because you do tease? Can you imagine your girlfriend leaving you because you have said it is looking at his lips and could not help but want to kiss?
As if the deal was done.
The problem for many men when it comes to lying to women is that they lie about themselves, about their work, property or hobbies. The effectiveness of these lies is void if you do so is an excellent time to lose the habit. By contrast there are other lies that are extremely effective, dealing with it: you're beautiful tonight, you are fabulous, incredibly sexy, etc. Thus ... "I'm asking you to lie? No, if you follow my advice it will not need it, what I want is to reflect on why these lies work.
work because they have a powerful emotional charge. I'll explain with an example to convince you that France is in Europe will not take any effort so I will just say that France is Europe. But if I convince you that Tanzania is not enough to say so Europe but would have to put the best of my dialectic to achieve.
The same applies to when complimenting a woman, when you really feel a deep attraction we just make that clear. But if you do not feel a special attraction advances accompany our fine words to hide the truth, lest we see the feather duster. Paradoxically, the first form, the failures are much more frequent than the latter. Why? Because we have not accompany the expression of interest with emotions. We limited ourselves to a bland compliment, sometimes even not even say anything and we just try to kiss her. That is very little, if you want to move creates a climate conducive to progress, she whispers sweet words in the ears of women creating a time when the peak is reach a sexual level.
The conclusion you draw is that progress must be accompanied by emotions, not limit you to externalize your interest but do it so that she feels pretty, sexy, magnetic ... in short, make it feel special. Seducing a woman is not to convince her to make her feel special but you are special, unique and deeply beautiful, the prettiest woman in the world
behave with a woman as if the deal was not done when it is meant that when a woman appeals to you put the same intensity in your words like you do not attract, like you have to cheat. Women must be told the truth so that only then will achieve Amazingly you create.
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